When my parents divorced I was four years old -- too young to protest or understand what was happening. All I knew was that my father was gone, and I wouldn’t see him but once more until he died. He chose not to call. Not to send cards or gifts. Not to visit. Although he wasn’t around to impact me in a negative way, his absence etched lifelong scars on my heart about man’s unfaithfulness. If my own father wasn’t reliable or trustworthy who could I ever count on?
I spent the next twenty years vacillating between hope and despair. The God given desire for faithfulness prompted me to search for it, but repeated experiences with broken relationships left me feeling more wounded and cynical. Against this dismal backdrop, the Lord appeared and began revealing his perfect faithfulness. Like a diamond against black velvet, his trustworthiness and reliability shone with such brilliance that I was completely overwhelmed by it. My mind couldn’t grasp that such security and love existed in a world that had showed me so little of it. I soaked it in, reveled in his perfect love and clung to him out of great fear that something I did or said would drive him away. As the days spilled into months and then years I began to realize that he wasn’t leaving – that everything he said about himself and his character was true. I could relax and count on him!
Over the past year I've been meditating on the Ephesians 6 passage on the armor of God. Paul reminds me to take up the shield of faith in God’s faithfulness. When Satan comes at me daily with lies that God isn’t going to provide, that he’s not powerful, that his love is not secure and a myriad of other attempts to break my trust in him, the certainty of God’s unwavering, unchanging faithfulness quenches the fiery darts. Believing, or having faith, in his faithfulness is also the only way to guard my heart from defeat when circumstances and people disappoint.
God’s faithfulness ensures my often anxious heart that he’s reliable or “consistently good and dependable”. What he says he’s going to do he always fulfills. There isn’t anyone or anything else in all creation that is one hundred percent dependable. Even my husband and closest friends who've shown themselves to be loyal and trustworthy fail at times to honor their word. If I stake my hope in them I'll be perpetually disappointed. But with Christ, I can be certain that his reliability is unfaltering. It’s flawless. He'll never ever break a single promise. And because he's trustworthy, I can go to him with burdens and concerns in confidence that he not only hears us but he always answers. He promises that if I pray in his name, according to his will that he will do “abundantly more than I can ask or imagine.”
What can I trust God to do in my life? These are just a few of the promises.
He’s faithful to completely save and sanctify me.
“He is able to save completely those who come to God through him, because he always lives to intercede for them.” Heb 7:25
“May God himself, the God of peace, sanctify you through and through. May your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. The one who calls you is faithful, and he will do it.” 1 Thes. 5:23-24
He’s faithful to forgive all my past, present and future sins.
“If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” 1 Jn 1:9
He’s faithful to be with me though the presence of his Holy Spirit
“And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another advocate to help you and be with you forever— the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with you and will be in you.” Jn 14:16-17
He’s faithful to empower, strengthen and uphold me.
“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” Is 41:10
He’s faithful to defend me from the enemy.
“Yet the Lord is faithful, and he will strengthen you and set you on a firm foundation and guard you from the evil one.” 2 Thes 3:3
He’s faithful to provide for all of my emotional, physical and spiritual needs.
“And my God will meet all of your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus.” Phil 4:19
“He provides food for those who fear him; he remembers his covenant forever.” Ps 111:5
He’s faithful to grow me in wisdom and understanding and knowledge of his will.
“If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.” Js 1:5
“For the LORD gives wisdom, and from his mouth come knowledge and understanding. He holds victory in store for the upright, he is a shield to those whose walk is blameless.” Prov 2:6-7
He’s faithful to bring glory to his name through me as he enables me to bear much fruit.
“This is to my Father’s glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my disciples.” Jn 15:8
He’s faithful to give me the desires of my heart as I surrender my will to his.
“Delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart.” Ps 37:4
He’s faithful to uphold me in temptation.
“No temptation has seized you expect what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.” 1 Cor 10:13
