Imagine waking up one morning to discover your entire identity has been remade. You receive instructions that you are being reimagined and redefined by different realities than before. Now imagine agreeing to this, saying goodbye to your previous identity, and taking on a whole new way of life.
This sounds like a Jason Bourne movie, but in a sense, it is what happens when we come to know Jesus Christ as both Savior and Lord. In that instant, we are regenerated and receive from God’s Spirit a new identity, as those who are now in union with Christ (2 Corinthians 5:17; Ephesians 2:10). The Bible says we are literally transferred from an old kingdom—Adam-land—to the new kingdom of Christ and given new desires and desires to live for our new King (Colossians 1:13; Romans 6:4). The Bible assures us that this new identity cannot be removed, and that we are secure as newly adopted daughters and sons of the King (Romans 8:15-17).
But what if the ruler of the previous kingdom—the kingdom of darkness—sends messages contrary to God’s messages about our new identity? What happens if we choose to believe those lies? In the same way that we begin to live out Gospel truth, we can, in a lesser and temporary sense, begin to live out a false identity if we choose to listen to and believe false information about God, ourselves, and others.
Here’s how it works: maybe we go through a series of difficult trials, hurts, and disappointments. Through this, we are asking God for answers and help, but not seeing definite results. Thoughts begin to emerge and we wonder if things will improve, if God is really with us, and if He will come through. We begin to doubt if we are really that different than we were before, and if we can handle the stress of these trials if they continue. Slowly, we start to believe small lies like “I need more than I have to get through this,” “God doesn’t care,” and "I've got to figure this out on my own." With these lies come the foundations of a new, alternate identity. We’ve shifted from a position of trust in what God says about us and Himself to believing what our feelings and circumstances say (Proverbs 3:5-6; Jeremiah 17:9).
The Greater Reality
We look at the things around us—our homes, nature, and the world—and conclude that what we see and experience is the greatest form of reality and constitutes our real identity. In addition, our flesh, the world system and Satan are constantly trying to tell us that God and His invisible truths are illusory. But the Bible says this is not true (2 Corinthians 4:18). In an instant, everything we consider reliable in the world can shift and be destroyed, including health, finances, and relationships. It is an illusion to believe these things are more stable or can sustain us better than the reality that God tells us is true in His Word. Thus, two definitions of what is true and what is illusory are at battle, because there are two kingdoms at war—the domain of darkness and the kingdom of our Father’s beloved Son.
The flesh and Satan’s demons continually tell us that God’s truth and the new identity we have in Christ are an illusion. On the other hand, the Lord describes all the riches we have in Christ. The two are antithetical. For example, God says our life is now hidden with Christ in God, and Christ is our life. Yet the whole culture surrounding us screams that this description of our identity and riches in Christ is false, and that true identity is found in that which we handle, see, and hear.
We may not feel it, but God’s description of our identity is more real than anything in this universe that our senses perceive and our emotions feel. We walk by faith, not by sight. Since this is true, it’s vital to know God’s truth so that we can discern the lies we are tempted to believe. Here are a few that impact our lives, along with God’s promises, which we can stand on.
Three Key Lies
“I am not complete.”
This is the serpent’s lie in the Garden, tempting Adam and Eve to seek transcendence through special wisdom and knowledge that would make them whole (Genesis 3:1–6). Yet they were already complete in their relationship with God. As those who are now in Christ, the Bible says we are complete in Him (Colossians 2:10). That means that though we are sinful, broken, and lacking perfection in our flesh—in everything from our intellect to physical strength and ability—Christ has given us His righteousness (2 Corinthians 5:21) and made us spiritually alive and whole through union with Him. Now, we live as those who fully measure up in Christ because of His sufficiency, not our own.
As we trust this, we can go out each day from a place of fullness so that His living waters flow from us (John 7:38), rather than going out seeking validation, acceptance, and completion through what we do, know, or accomplish. If we believe the lie that we are incomplete, we will live in an entirely different identity than what Christ has given us, and instead of bearing good fruit, we will bear the bitter fruit of the flesh (Galatians 5:22–23).
“I am alone.”
Another lie is that we are alone—that God is not with us on a practical level. Adam and Eve likely gave in to this deception, forgetting about God’s nearness and His faithfulness. If they had trusted that the Lord was with them and was not withholding any good, in their moment of temptation, they would have called out to Him as their ever-present help and protector (Psalm 46:1). In response, the Lord Himself would have driven out the wicked one.
The wonderful reality is that He has given believers His Holy Spirit, our Helper and Advocate, to dwell within us, sealing us to Himself eternally (John 14:26; Ephesians 1:14). We are never alone and never will be! He promises, “I am with you always even to the end i of the world” (Matthew 28:20).
If we truly trust that God is with us and helping us, we will live at peace, walk in his wisdom and wait for Him, rather than turning to idols for support when life doesn’t work out the way we want (Isaiah 41:10; Philippians 4:6-7).
“I must protect and defend myself.”
When we believe the lie that we’re not complete in Christ and that we are alone, we will inevitably think that we have to protect and defend ourselves to flourish and remain safe. This puts us in both an offensive and defensive position that eventually exhausts us—leaving us to discern all danger, form strategies to evade it, fight the enemy, and protect ourselves (Ephesians 6:12).
In a sense, we become our own god, trying to validate our worth through striving and contending, then seeking to protect ourselves from danger by either fight or flight. Adam and Eve did this after eating from the forbidden tree, as they hid from God to defend themselves and put together fig leaves to cover their shame. The same is true for us. All our strategies to guard ourselves from shame, pain, and evil are like flimsy fig leaf coverings that cannot protect us. But if we trust in the Lord’s protection and actively put ourselves under His care, He will fulfill His promises.
Returning to our True Identity
The way back to living in our true identity is often easier to trace once we’ve recognized the lies we’re believing. Dissatisfied with the chaotic static of our misplaced identity, we begin to hear God clearly beckoning us to return to Him and the truth to find freedom and flourishing (John 8:32). This begins by actively turning our eyes and ears back to His unchanging Word, acknowledging that despite how we feel or what we sense in this ever-changing physical world, His Word is true, and every creature is a liar (Hebrews 4:12; Romans 3:4). Because of His gift of faith in Christ (1 Timothy 1:14; 2 Timothy 1:13; 2 Peter 1:1), we can renounce the lies of our flesh, the world, and Satan, and embrace God’s inerrant, infallible Word with complete trust that we are complete and qualified in Christ (Colossians 2:10). He will never leave or forsake us and is fighting on our behalf.
By putting our complete confidence in Him, we can rest in the assurance that He is in charge, upholding us with His powerful right hand and that the battle belongs to the Lord – not us (Exodus 14:14; Isaiah 41:10). As we do this, we begin to live from a place of rest, just as God promised in Hebrews: “for anyone who enters God’s rest also rests from their works, just as God did from his” (Hebrews 4:10). We no longer need to strive to prove, defend, or complete ourselves, because the one who is our very life has already made us whole (Colossians 3:3–4). We don’t have to live as those who are orphans, since we rest in our Father’s care. And we do not need to be hyper-alert, with an adrenaline surge and cortisol explosion, because our Father is the sovereign ruler over all the details of life—just as Jesus said in Matthew 6:25-34.
The battle for our identity is essentially a battle for our fully persuaded trust. Will we trust the voice of our loving Lord or the lies of th world, the flesh and the deceiver? Every day, we are free to live as those who are secure in Christ. The more we learn to stand on this reality, the more the illusions of our flesh and the world begin to fade. The truth becomes clear—we are his chosen, adopted, beloved, holy children who are not only complete but secure in Christ (Ephesians 1:3-5; Colossians 3:12).
“Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known. But we know that when Christ appears, we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is” (1 John 3:1-2)
